So update... I had a great weekend. On Saturday I drove up to visit my friend in Connecticut. We had dinner at her place and then went to the Mohegan Sun Casino - lost only $50 bucks. But we had fun. We got home like 3am in the morning. Had breakfast and then I drove back on Sunday. It was great doing GALing stuff like this.
But, I haven't been very good at DBing this weekend. I think I have probably broken several DB rules this weekend. So last week fedex has been trying to deliver a packagage for H and Sat they called and said they are holding it for him. So before I left fot CT, I dropped off the fedex slip and a mail for H to his mother's place. I was trying to be good and I had just texted H saying that I dropped his mail off. But, as I was there H's son and his sister came up from the basement. I can help but to be hurt at times to see that. I've been working on getting to accept H's son but OW's daughter, what the hell is that. H's nieces, who speak to OW, babysits them and they are now very comfortable at MIL's place. Makes me feel like WOW one big happy family. The family that was once mine. OW doesn't go to MIL place though, I guess not yet. H's just drops them off. So H's niece had said that H just dropped them off but he went straight to the basement and I thought he came there while I was there. And I was hurt thinking that he saw my car in the driveway and didn't even come to say hi. When I left MIL's place I called him and asked doesn't he have any manners but he said he must have come before I got there becasue my car wasn't in driveway.
Then H asked where I was headed and I gladly told him I was going to CT to see a friend. Of course he asked if its my man and I said yes my man jokingly. And he asked again who and I said like you said my man. Then I told him my girlfriend. But of course he didn't believe me. So it felt good letting him know that I'm living my life. Then H asked again, "are you pregnant?" Isn't it crazy. I know its because we were trying to have a family and he has a fear of me moving on and getting pg for someone else. But the question just come out of the blew doesn't it. Like I would just casually get pg like the flu. I probably shouldn't have but I said, why are you always questioning me? How about I question you.. what are you doing, where are you headed? He didn't like that though. He said, alright alright forget it. We talked about business stuff after. Anyway, after we hanged up and I made sure I was the first to end the call. H then called back asking if that was just my call he saw with someone else in the car. And then he even asked if I'm going to spend the weekend. I said yes, and asked him how many weekends hasn't he spent out now. Again he got defensive and didn't like that conversation. So we ended the call. I was about to called back, tried twice actually, but through the grace of God, his phone went to voicemail.
On Sunday, I needed him to go take care of something at our bldg so I texted him. And then had to call him. He was about to ask if I was on my way back home and then he said forget it. Then he called me once he took care of the stuff.
I probably shouldn't have but I said, why are you always questioning me? How about I question you.. what are you doing, where are you headed? He didn't like that though. He said, alright alright forget it. We talked about business stuff after. Anyway, after we hanged up and I made sure I was the first to end the call. H then called back asking if that was just my call he saw with someone else in the car. And then he even asked if I'm going to spend the weekend. I said yes, and asked him how many weekends hasn't he spent out now. Again he got defensive and didn't like that conversation. So we ended the call. I was about to called back, tried twice actually, but through the grace of God, his phone went to voicemail.
