I was really waiting for your response and I thank you for the advice.
What bothers me is that she now turns her phone off when she is out, so if (god forbid) one of the children got ill or had to go to the hospital I could not reach her. In the past if I had done this she would have gone mad. How can she be so flippant with the children? I can understand it with me...but the children.
I also noticed last night the very poor excuse she gave me in regard to her phone not having a charger all of a sudden. It seems to me she does not really care as long as she can get to the OP as soon as possible.
On a 180 front should I have complimented her on the way she looked? This would have been a 180 for me but in DR it says do not compliment as it looks like pursuing. Can I make a delayed compliment later when I take the children back, do I approach her about the phone as to me this would also look like Anticipation for next time, but it would appear to my wife as DEFINATE pursuing.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
