JCJ, thank you SO MUCH for your post. I was reading it with disbelief. He has no idea why he left you?? It's really amazing that WAS makes these life-changing decisions for no apparent reason. I can't find the compassion to understand yet. I need to work on that.
I am so glad that you were so brave in bringing up the D. I hope he takes a second look and see the great person that you are. It also bodes well that he didn't cheat on you while living with you (unlike my H). Do you think he sent you the followup e-mail because he can't live with himself with being the 'bad guy' in the breakup? And that he is hugely relieved that you didn't cast him in that role?
I keep thinking to myself, I can get over the betrayal, I can get over the blame, but can I get over the truth? The truth was I didn't give just cause for my H to cheat on me multiple times or to leave me. But if he cannot admit that ever, can I get over it?
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
