I've been at this for a little over a year now like yourself. I do see glimmers of hope between my W and I, but it's going to take time. And you're right...alot of patience on my part.
Do you have a thread going now?
Yeah, it's here in piecing. Might be back a page as I haven't updated it for over a week. Was out of town for work for a week and I'm still buried getting caught up. I'll post an update soon.
The majority of my sitch was over in Infidelity if you want to see the long story. My W's A started in Mar 07, I got confirmation in Sept 07. Exposed to OMW in Oct 07. W met OM once more after that and kept trying to arrange meets (he moved ~200 miles away in Aug 07) so when I decided to file for divorce in Mar 08 (after the latest meet attempt) I told my kids what was going on and that was the end of the A.
So I've been at this for over 2 years from when I first became suspicious and over a year since the A ended. Still not sure if there isn't some contact while she's at work, but if there is, I picture it as "hey, what's going on" kind of stuff.
Anyway, I'll post an update on my sitch when I have more time.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
