I think she is trying futilely to get people on "her side". She doesn't have support for her choices so she needs to make you out to be awful.
Funny how you mentioned the Daughtry song, it is really how I see it happening with ex. But I also like "What about now" because to me it is hopeful regarding someone new from the past in my case. Keeping my fingers crossed for us both.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory