THanks for the input. I just needed to vent more than anything. I was rather disturbed that I could be the one being accused of not caring. I really don't want to be ANYTHING to W anymore. I can't bring myself to feel even the slightest bit sorry for her and her text saying that it's difficult for her just confirms she is still on planet self.
I am to remain on good terms with MIL until she dies. I need to do that for her and for me. I have to put up with listening how supportive W's new boyfriend has been and what lovely gifts he has brought. I don't knock, call or comment. I just nod and agree. That side of the conversation doesn't get mentioned. I know I am on the higher ground though and that is good enough for me.
I have already taken a step back. The nect REALLY difficult time will be the funeral.
