I am very sorry to hear that markhaving. It's kind of weird how our biggest faults like patience is challenged through things like this. I guess one way to look at it is on the other side of this, I'll be better at having patience, or understanding that there are problems out there I can't solve! \:\)

Good point about keeping focus on the kids. That's motivation to do the right thing.

It's gnawing on me today that I want to e-mail the OP and let him know I know what happened. Kindly "thank him" if you will. Trying to kick that thought, because I don't think it's helpful in the situation. So maybe typing it out to you all will help me settle down with that a little! \:\)