recently just found out

[markhaving probs]

I think I have discovered my wife is having PA as I have our two children this weekend as we are seperated and she has stayed over at 'friends' houses the last two nights. She made excuses that she is uncontactable these last two nights via mobile and has not left a landline to contact her. She dropped off my S7 last night at 5.00pm and was dressed up to go somewhere, her hair was done, she was wearing nice underwear (from what I could see) and was in quite a hurry to get away. I do not have any proof whatsoever but it looks very strange to me. I have not approached her about anything as DR says but it is really chewing me up.

I have received great support and advice as you are here. Concentrate on you and the children. At least you know the OP you are dealing with. I have no idea, therefore I cannot try to be the 'better man', though at the moment it would be a waste of time anyway. She is fast tracking to divorce (7 weeks) and I believe she will wheel the OP out a couple of months after that so that it was oh so 'natural'. I feel like she is treating me like an idiot and a fool, but all I can do is concentrate on me and the children.

Good luck to you, I am told patience is the most important thing we need to have, I am lousy at it but it must be done.