You are right. I am glad for what I did accomplish but was still thrown for a loop on everything else. I guess the things that I have been doing and have accomplished in this time have had no effect on H as he is moving even further away. Maybe it has had no effect bc of this OW he was entertaining ideas of being with.
I know I can't make him do anything or control his actions. I told him I thought it was wrong. I guess it was left last night as he didn't know what he was going to do about it but he didn't want me to find out from somewhere else if they did start seeing each other. I said he has to ask himself what is right?
I hope he thinks about our conversation but I have a feeling he has already decided or he would not have been telling me.
I don't know what to do next or what I will decide. I could really use some advice here from others who know a bit more than I do.
Me-27 H-28 M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs No kids B 1/09 S 2/09
