Hey Bobbi, No need to be defensive, seriously no judgements on my part and I did say, if you're done DBing, or acting like x, hats fine and I dont blame you. BUT, its just that if you were still trying to reconcile, it seemed to me that perhaps some of the things you say to him are not helping that goal. BUT.. of course you have tried for 18 months and things havent really changed.
I'm sorry, I did read about the nathan convo, but I didnt realise he had put it in such harsh terms, that he would rather live at his parents... I agree with Sara though, as I said, dont collude with him, you go tell whoever you need to that you are S ! Ditto on the "its just about us" comment.. guess he is still in childish me me me mode and not able to think really about how his actions and decisions are affecting you all (or cant allow himself to).
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
