Ok guys I hear you. I probably shouldnt have started this thread, because I had a thread already but I wanted LBS that had to deal with ow and kids to come here. It seems it is getting off track, but that is ok. With that said, I do hear you and agree. I am holding on to the past and what he said. I cant believe I am still believing the half of it. It's going on 8 months and I still remember word for word almost. He said over and over that we could always get remarried, yea that was probably to get me off his back. I was just hoping that something he said would be the truth. If all this is so, why the tears? I dont think they were fake, because he NEVER cries. It takes alot to make him cry.
Guys most of you, it seems, have had communication with your MLC, or WAH/W. I dont get that. That is really what hurts the most. Yes he may NOT love me anymore, yes he may be in love with ow, BUT tell me one thing, how can a man or woman that has lived with someone and cared about them at one time suddenly NOT CARE if they have food to eat or running water? That is what blows my mind. Even if he didnt offer any money, he could call and say is everything ok. On top of this, I AM the mother of his child. How can he NOT feel something, not love, just some kinda of feeling for me? Again, I am not saying he has to love me, but at least be human. I wouldnt treat anyone I know like that. Where does this man that once cared about his familys well being go????????? You dont have to be in love with somebody, but you can have some feeling of caring. I know I shouldnt hold on to anything he says or has said, but there was one time he messed up while talking to me, I was asking him, over the phone, how can you not love me just a little and he said, I do love you, I just get upset with you. The next day or so, he denied saying that to me, he said I misunderstood him and he said he cared about me.
Anyway yes Braveheart he did leave me and yes he wanted a divorce and got one in 2 months time. He said, and I know it dont matter, but he said he wanted a divorce because he didnt feel right dating while still married, then once he said, so he could move on with his life. I found out later that he was seeing a girl and she didnt want to see him and him being married, so I thing he rushed it up quite a bit. Braveheart why didnt he just immediately divorce me, why did he wait 60 days you suppose? Our son was 18, so he didnt have to wait. He would say everyday, I am filing tomorrow. He said this sooooo much and then he finally did. I do think he thought about it some. I know it doesnt matter.
