I am so ready have something happen here so I can get out of this limbo. I know there are other kind, caring thoughtful women around here ... just like the three of you... but at this point my estranged W is not one of them.
(Interesting song on the radio - timing is amazing - Daughtry's "Over You")
My L is advising me so far to keep a steady ship and not do anything to give her ammo so to speak. She is getting bad advice is the consensus. Will see what happens. I just want the house thing settled for sure. The rest we can deal with as we each get "settled" so to speak.
The "fog" or confusion - not sure anymore if that is what it is or just the true narcisstic nature coming out that I no longer cater to.
W met a F friend of mine the other day (W not aware that this F and I have become good friends) and had a two hour coffee talk. Of course I was filled in and basically it was 2 hours of W slamming me. Now move on already... that's the part I do not understand...
We'll see what this week brings for excitement...
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.