So Dan came over to the house after the party to work on the playset. I will take a pic when it is done, it is HUGE! Kids love it...
I asked if he would like to eat dinner w/us since he was here anyway and he said yes, he had some chix breasts in the fridge that he bought after church but hadn't grilled. So he kept Sydney while Nathan and I went to karate, then we grilled and ate dinner together. Then he left, terrible headache again (bad allergies and neck out of place)...
He had asked me to park on the drive as he wanted to store playset pieces in the garage, I said fine. Put kids to bed, etc etc. Noticed message on my phone from an hour ago. He was texting me "make sure you lock both basement doors and take your garage door opener in or lock up your car. good night" When he lived here he was the 'door locker/house guarder' so to speak...This is the first time he's brought our safety up since he left. I just replied "I did, thanks for looking out for us".
You guys have known me 18 months almost. You know I am not a bitch and I don't try to make his life miserable. if anything I have hurt myself by stretching too much to compensate for his lack in that regard...Sorry Al your post just stung a little. Maybe I am shaming him, and maybe that isn't the way to 'win' him but kissing his butt didn't work for me either
