Just to throw in my two cents worth. I know how I felt as an AWAW and I would say that if you are not getting positive results by the particular validations you are giving her......then that is a cheeseless tunnel and you need to stop. Why continue to do something that pisser her off and she has even told you that it makes her sick? That is backfiring on you, and Michelle says stop doing what doesn't work. As somebody told me the other day, when we continue to do the same thing and expect a different reaction, that is insanity.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
