Sorry you are in the situation like the rest of us.
Best thing would be to start your own thread in the Newcomers section. Everyone's sitch is a little different so you'll get more personalized advice that way.
Good luck.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
