To be honest, I don't think my W is interested in me right now. It stems from what I've read on here so far. My W isn't showing me love or hatred. She's pretty much showing me indifference. That's probably the worst sign.

I'm not giving up though. I just have to build myself beyond that.

By the way, MsM, I know I can't make her happy. It's my job to make me happy. Hopefully she'll come along for the ride though.

PM, the writing course is going really good. They're keeping me on my toes. I'm impressed you remember about that. Well, unless I've mentoined it leately and can't remember. I'm hoping to sell my first piece real soon. Fingers crossed it does well.

JCJ, it's great to hear from you. I've read many of your posts and found your advice to be spot on. Thank you so much for your support. You're right, I am trying to build a friendship with my W but I have no indication of whether it's working or not. She's treating me with indifference right now and that makes it hard. At the end of the day though, it's all about what I feel comfortable doing. I am an attractive person and I have a lot going for me. Hopefully one day my W will see that. If not, I'll still be the same person and I'll be open to offers!!! Lol.


Me: 32, Wife: 22
Son: 2
Married: 2 years
Separated: January 5th 2009

Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.