Hey Silva,

A bit of catching up to do. Sorry for the long break. You can catch up at my thread.

Sounds like you are up to a lot. My advice with sick family members is to do what you need to do for closure with them. Never mind what others think - it is about your R with that person that is the point. Your R with others can be different.

I will caution you that your W is angry about her mother's condition and needs someone to dish it out to - you can be that person or not - your choice. Just remember it isn't about you it is about her loss.

Take a step back, deep breathe and dance!


Me late 50's
M 9/06
D 4/11