I'm back. I blew a fuse - all that pent up frustration from the past. I thought when H became sober, things would be different. But change comes slowly and it is happening. H has 90 days, still attends meetings, goes to church, keeps up with therapy.
He is showing a new understanding of our M, he takes responsibility for his part in tearing apart our R. No more conflict, no more walking on eggshells, and we talk. He is understanding of my position and feelings now more than ever. He listens and compromises. He isn't giving up.
We were stuck before - his issue with the kids and my issue with our R. Well, he finally saw my point, agreed with me and agreed to move back in with the kids until they were ready to go. Imagine his reaction when he learned that both are moving out this summer for their own reasons - D got a scholarship to college and S (who dropped out of college) is working and plans to live with friends.
I will be moving to piecing soon as we are working things out and he plans to move back in this summer. I have a lot to work out myself together with him, but the past few weeks he has shown me sides of him I never saw for more than a few minutes before - now it is there all the time.
Thanks again to everyone for your support because I wouldn't be here without it.
Yes Silva - you have your dance partner back!
SO2, AJM, JCJ, Mr Lost I am back and ok. I will be here briefly and then move to peicing for obvious reasons.
Gypsy welcome! Wise advice as always- thanks! Please follow along if you can.
