I don't know.. I am going to leave this one to the experts but while I appreciate his need to be honest I don't think that it is appropriate to discuss your dating prospects with your wife unless you both agreed to the separation and have parted as friends. I don't know how I would have reacted but I applaud you for being cool calm and collected.
What will you do next? What do you feel like doing? I would let him sort out his dating dilemma on his own and politely set a boundary. Does he think that you are Dear Abby? But I am not an old hand at this, so please listen to the vets out there and be guided by them.
