(((((Fallgirl)))))

To answer your question on Alexander's thread....

Yes, I've been going to IC since last spring. The biggest thing I think it did for me was let me see that it wasn't all my fault. That I wasn't unreasonable to want things to be different. C thinks W would benefit from some C herself, but that's not going to happen. I started C because I was feeling depressed. My doc gave me a quick survey which agreed, and of course I did some on-line surveys that agreed. So, I went ahead and went. That was a big step for me, but very helpful.