Thank you for your insight, it is always great to get a womans perspective on things.
Simon,
I think I am making a good start at Anticipating, therefore I will continue to do this for the children, for it to become natural (which is going to be hard for me), to inprove as a father and as you quite rightly said, anything else will be a bonus.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years