Its going be hard - but this anticipation gig is everything -if you want your W to trust you -that's where to start...
I'm presuming you were cr@p at it -like me...now you have an insight...Mark if you can pull this off you're into a win/win situation....
As in - your kids win -you win.... -whatever comes out of that is a bonus - right?
The posters above have been right in busting you for being a DAM (Dumb Ass Man, which I offer as a complete former dyed in the wool DAM myself) but now you have the knowledge and tools to be a better man - right?