I can't say that the conversation with your H was totally unexpected. He continues to blame you and not see his role in this.
"because of what he sees as a CATACLYSMIC CHANGE in me and the way I am proceeding with y life. "
He's the one that needs to change now. He blames you for being the horrible mother, the selfish W, yet runs off to the OW.
Like I mentioned earlier, his actions are like a frightened child who blames everyone else but them for their troubles.
I'm sorry that he drags your emotions through this every time. You will get through this. You must remain strong. Find out what your rights are. Do not think about his needs and what faults he might have brought up. Continue to be strong for you and your daughter.
My prayers go out to you for your growth and strength.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
