H came by today after calling to announce it as always. We were doing homework with the kids and that lasted a few...hours wo we were still doing that when he arrived around 13:00. He finished homework with them while I finished lunch. We ate together and then I went to rest because my back has been killing me. My D came to snuggle and he came too (D between us) because she asked him too.
His project finished yesterday night, he had shaved and cut his hair and looked good. He was friendly and so was I. If I had approached him warmer I bet he would mirror my behavior.
BEFORE Ali asks why didnt I, I will answer because I didnt feel like it. And before someone else asks why I didnt, I answer because I dont feel close to him at all. I dont see him, I dont share my everyday life with him, he doesnt help out with my everyday issues and makes no effort/initiative to break the cycle and I am NOT willing to do it casue it will get us back to where we were 2 years ago. Unless he steps up, I am polite and friendly and that's it.
I took the kids out, had a lovely afternoon and we are getting ready for the week ahead. K
