To be honest I had the feeling that I as about to embark on another 2 year cycle, so the cycle will need to be broken.
Lanzo, How will you break the cycle? What will you do to ensure that it doesn't become an unbalanced R where you're doing all the work trying to make her happy?
We're dealing with depressed, addictive personalities who will gladly let us do all the work, and blame us when they're still unhappy. I hope we'll get to see some effort on her part.
Good job on provoking an honest R talk, and for having the courage to tell her that you were ready to leave the M. I hope it's a catalyst for some healing and Piecing.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."