Thank you for your imput. Seeing her dressed up threw me and in hindsight by acknowledging how she looked would have been a 180 for me. I don't know if shewas looking for a reaction from me, but maybe this was an instance when I should have said she looked nice. I guess it would look 'needy' and weak if I sent her a text, but there again she would not get it as she turned her phone off. I guess I just have to grin and bear it.
GTI,
Thank you for your imput. I need to keep telling myself to drop the rope but I am finding it so bloody hard. I am quite happy at theway I am starting to try and anticipate things and the way I can control a situation under normal circumstances. It is when my wife turns up ready for an evening I find the hardest, especially when she is making so much effort for somebody else.
By the way, I am based in Reigate, Surrey about 15 minutes from Gatwick.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
