I kicked back yesterday, giving myself permission to just do close to nothing. Today should be more productive; went to Church.

Interesting revelation today:
my x-sil just had a very "old friend" move in with her yesterday. Seems he finally left his wife. I think the family always suspected that they were a couple, that she was the OW, for more than 10 years, but this pretty much confirms it.

What's the chances of having 5 children, and 2 of them seem to accept that adultery isn't such a bad thing?
Out of the other three sibs, only one seems to have a healthy, balanced marriage.

Amazing what not being in the thick of it can lead to perspective. Makes me not miss the deep involvement so much. I just hope I am providing a better moral compass to my kids than what happened in my generation - the in-laws seem like such a good couple, but something obviously went very wrong.