Thanks the tip, I will make sure I clear the history before H comes to work on computer!

I said I had plans today can I let him know, later I txt to say I would be finished by 6 if that works for him. He said he'd come for 630. Then he text and said 'meet you in the pub?' and asked which I'd prefer?!?? Thought he was just coming to fix pc, but after that it looks like he would like to have a drink/meal. Anyway I just said ok and the place I'd like to meet.

Did a good job today of being busy after little crash last night. I met a friend, went to gym, went for coffee (and a treat!) and then we went shopping (i think i found a great dining table for my house and have been wanting one for a long time!) then got groceries and now just getting ready to meet H in an hr. I want to look nice but not dressed up, trying to keep it casual.

I asked myself want would I like to get out of our meeting?

I couldn't think of anything specific I wanted to say or get across that would be helpful at this point so decided I wanted

1. to use it as time to practice my dbing (of course!) Act as if it is going to go well, no questions, be positive, upbeat content.
2. To be friendly (not sure if I've been coming across as friendly)
3. To make sure to keep good conversation (since H complained we never had enough to talk about anymore)

am I missing any big ones here?


Am also kind of preparing myself that he may cancel as he said he is feeling unwell in the morning.


Me-27
H-28
M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs
No kids
B 1/09
S 2/09

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