That's right Snodderly he NEEDED something. It was the way he said it too. He came only for the movie and dinner and was planning on leaving right away.
He didn't ASK to borrow the money. Simply said Glam how much money can you pull out of the bank in one day (meaning from the ATM). I said none, since I don't have any. He then said I will need you to pull out $300 today and then another $300 tomorrow. I said H I don't have it. He said I just need that until my check comes in, I have to pay my rent and utilities. I just said I don't have it and walked into the house.
He helped the kids into the house and was saying goodbye to them. I had his jacket on since I was a little chilly. I said h here is your jacket. He said forget it and marched out and left his jacket. Once again stomp, stomp, stomp I am mad at you! Honestly, grow up!
He will just have to be a man and explain that his rent will be a few days late this month. What's the big deal? It happens all the time. What's the difference when I had to explain our mortgage was going to be a few days late? Did my h offer to help then? What a prick.
He could have not asked me for help and figured it out on his own or when I declined, he could have simply said Glam I understand, it's my issue not yours. I will figure it out. Instead let me throw a tantrum and show you that I can storm out and be mad. What else is new?
The more I am around him, the more I don't even like his character anymore. He used to be such a great guy. Now he is so self consumed. Me, me, me! As long as I get all my needs met first then we can think of you and the kids, but only then.
Why would I be attracted to him? What does he have to offer me?
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"