Separated, Served...still have FAITH!

[PortlandDad]

Jag, that line of questioning will get you into an argument. Remember back to high school, when your GF would say, "Let's be friends"? She didn't mean she wanted to be friends, she meant that she didn't want to be your GF any more. The same principle is at play here. right now, she doesn't want to be your friend, she just doesn't want to be your W. You can get back to where you want to be, but if you force the issue or ask the question, you are going to get into an argument.