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I remember when my H dropped the bomb, we went to a few sessions with a therapist
all I could say was a few months ago, everything was fine
we were together, and M was ok
The mc said that all we have is now..what was doesnt matter anymore
It was a hard thought to grasp
all we have is now
for today
I am D
For today my XH is living with 28yr old OW
He seems content to be with her and continues to ket me go
For today I lat him go too. I have new friends and new activites
I am a good mother and have a great job
My XH and I are friendly at times when needed for the business or kids
all other times, I concentrate on my new life and not X
it takes time 2 years it took me to get here
you will get there too
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow