S I remember when my H dropped the bomb, we went to a few sessions with a therapist all I could say was a few months ago, everything was fine we were together, and M was ok The mc said that all we have is now..what was doesnt matter anymore It was a hard thought to grasp all we have is now for today I am D For today my XH is living with 28yr old OW He seems content to be with her and continues to ket me go For today I lat him go too. I have new friends and new activites I am a good mother and have a great job My XH and I are friendly at times when needed for the business or kids all other times, I concentrate on my new life and not X it takes time 2 years it took me to get here you will get there too peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow