I hope she is trying. I can only assume she is, cpncentrate on the positive and continue to move forward
Yours or mine??...lol.
I honestly think yours is...maybe we can convince each other?
I am pretty sure mine has just settled into a comfort zone that allows her to be OK with her decision, yet enjoy what we have rebuilt over the past year. Waiting for me to finally give up, or for herself to have enough balls to ask me to leave..or go out on her own.
My mistake has been letting her have her cake and eat it...afraid to rock the boat.
You need to remember that your wife has openly told you that she wants the feelings back...she wants things to improve...she is going to MC and IC. At the very least, no matter what happens, you have the satisfaction of knowing that you both tried.
I am going at this alone...beating my head against a wall for a year now, and dumb enough to keep riding the coaster with her.
Sorry..don't mean to spout here on your thread. If I go to mine it's just going to end up being a page of..waaaa...waaa..waaaa...I could go back 6 months and just copy and paste..it would be the same thing...lol.
