It does not happen all by itself, it takes time and a willingness to do it.
It is one of those things that you have to choose to do daily.
There is a great book called "How Can I Forgive You" but I don't remember the name of the author.
One of the biggest things I have found from some of my friends here, is that they think that by forgiving their Spouse they are letting them off of the hook so to speak.
Honestly, forgiveness doesn't make you weak, or stupid.
Also, forgiving someone doesn't mean you have to continue the relationship with them.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
