Thankyou Trusting, Julia. Perhaps its different for me though Julia, my ex didnt have an A and then leave me.. he didnt get together with her until the year after we S (but I dont doubt he fancied her before the bomb!). So I guess, its not her fault, she just got caught up in his mess. I am sure I would be less gracious about it if they had had an A!

I did say May though didnt I! Back at Christmas, when it wasnt looking at all hopeful and my ex was away skiing with his girlfriend. Looks like to be coming true, so... I might have the last laugh hey.