2009 - The Craziness Continues (Deux)

[lost_in_space]

Well...

Haven't posted anywhere in a while except the alt universe. Here's the latest...

Last Monday I received a revised proposal from W. I drafted a response which is now with my L who will be sending it out as if he wrote it. Some of the main points:

- W wants to get living arrangements finalized (me in house) and wants me to get her $$ to get a house (I have suggested I would agree to an interim payment if title to house was transferred and we agreed to the value of a few assets). I have heard that her "roommate" that owns the house is nearing her patience with W as she is staying there and contributing nothing.

- W wants everything re that she paid for out of her savings acount (my response was that no, it is 50/50 and if we did accept her proposal, I would be able to sit in a stool and watch TV - that would be it [she want the kitchen and dining room set which is why the food reference],

- W wants 9 years of spousal support at $1400 per month in addition to CS of 780. The 9 years comes from the # of years she was self-employed; my reaction is that anything aftee the time our youngest was starting full time school is solely her decision - only 3 years was a joint decision so maybe I should go for 50% of three years. I suggested 2 years at $860 (this amount equates after tax cash flow - still trying to portray fair and equitble.

- W still wants gift from parents returned.

- W wants to go to a week (as do I) and split holidays such as Xmas. My reaction is maybe after next Xmas and Thanksgiving but W started pattern of taking k's away for holidays. Si fair and equitable means I get the same days this year.

There was more all about me cr@p but you get my drift. Frustrating for sure. Hear more and more that W is out to lunch in so many ways.

And I am thinking more and more that I am just out...

Spending next 4 nights with k's. I like that!