Braveheart do you think losing the job could have really thrown him into depression. I thought he would always be a cop. I think he was sad after his friend left and then when he lost his job, he really went off the deepend. Everybody that knew him said he was a totally different person.
It doesn't sound to me like he is depressed. I think that your XH is a WAH, I just think he walked off and isn't going to look back. I'm not trying to hurt your feelings by saying this, but its what I believe. Do I think his marriage to his new girl will last? NOPE! Do I think he will come running back to you after they break up? NOPE! Renee, these people would rather live in lice than admit they did wrong! Trust me on that one! Love, you just need to work on you and rebuild your live without him!
Braveheart what do you exactly mean when you say "walked off and never looked back", because when he first left, he cried like he wasnt for sure. During the few days after he would say things like, "if I do come home, there is going to be some changes", and "just let me go throught whatever I am going through and you take care of the house in case we work this out". I believe he said this becuase he didnt know how long he was gonna be gone or if he would want to come back. Just my opinion. We also were intimate for weeks after, he initiated a couple times, but it was mostly me. He would NEVER ask me to come over but wanted me to. He didnt want to lead me on. (He said this alot). When we argued he would always threaten me with "I am NEVER coming home now". He held this over my head a few times. He even brought me supper once. He was nice to me and we got along ok up until I messed things up. I acted out VERY BADLY. I would show up at his house unexpected sometimes and demand he let me in. I would offer him sex or anything just to get to spend time with him. I was DESPERATE. That is before I found this site. We still talked some and he even said he wanted to speak with me at least every two weeks UNTIL he met this girl and now he says we will never be friends. He started saying he could never forgive me what how I acted.
