NC, I'm sorry about the news of that. I can relate, my H used to take my dog out with the OW when he was first pretending to do that instead of be with her, he'd be gone walking the dog for half a day! I hate any of my loved ones being around her.

The thing I think though is if true about your W doing that for way longer than you once thought, I mean thank goodness your marriage is ending if that's true. There are so many good, faithful women in the world--you deserve one of them!!! (((((NC)))))) Karen

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