I think you should wear it as long as you are committed to the M. I wouldn't phrase it to S3 that way because it is somewhat disparaging to W. I would say something more like "It's daddy's and it's very special so I don't ever take it off". Same message but without the dig.
Thanks Song that does sound much nicer - probably would've gained a little respect from the W saying it like that.
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