Well, at S15s game today (which I walked to) OM shows up and leaves after about 10mins. I immediately called W and told her I want to meet her and talk in person, she says ok. I walk directly and purposely up to her and she looks like a little kid who is going to be scolded and I said what are you thinking. She said OM is stubborn and she said she begged him to leave but he wanted to be there for her. I said you need to make it clear to him that he cannot show up and she said she will talk with him again. I told her that OM is disrespecting you and your kids. She said I know and then I replied if like to be with someone like he is then its your choice. She begged me for another chance and I said I'll give you 1 more chance. (Not sure what I'll do or can do but I made it clear that I was not happy about him disregarding my kids). I said I thought I was clear last night and that we had a good conversation and she agreed even said she was nervous all day about how last night would go and thought it was good. So, as I walked away I said 1 more chance and she said I know, I know and I'm sorry.
I actually felt ok, just worried about my kids and I know I'm so much stronger than before as I would not have stood up to her like I have been lately.
As I was walking home I called my best friend to update him on the latest developments between last night and today. He kept asking if I was ok and I said surprisingly I'm fine and he said alright as long as your fine then he was good too He is a great friend, we are more like brothers since we have known each since first grade.
He is a great friend, we are more like brothers since we have known each since first grade.