Hey In Limbo, Yes, our names just say it all, don't they? It's easy for me to pull back bc my H is rarely home. Literally, he gets home @ 830 and I'm in bed @ 930. He's up and out the door before me. So it's not too hard to keep it together for an hour. Kids are around which is a distraction.

I'm also in therapy, so that helps. I have just made a decision that I will not let this man make me miserable.

Fireproof DVD is good, but if your husband is resistant to working on the R, it just might make you sad right now. I'd hold off @ the moment. I saw it with my H before the bomb.

Good luck!!!


Me 39
H 42
M 11, T 12
S 10,6
D 3
EA 2007
separated in same home since 3/10/09