He's a WAW. No, wait, he's a MLC....

Yikes! I can see why you're so confused, Sunshine. Depression? Maybe. MLC? Not so much.

Regardless, I don't really see how your H has changed at all except for him leaving. I have read all your threads and he seems like he was always an arrogant jerk to you and at work.

As for his new marriage to his new GF, it may last as long as your marriage to him did. I will say though, that if they break up, I bet it will be her dumping him, not the other way around.