I ask D if she wants to talk to mommie she says no, I ask again she still says no.
Me: ok she doesnt want to talk right now too busy playing with friends
W: ok
Me: ok ill talk to you later
2 mins later I get a text....
W: What u hate me now or something?
Me: no not at all
End of conversation
I was very nice on the phone with my tone of voice and i was in the middle of something which i told her at the begining of the conversation... Hope this stuff is working...