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Thanks for the comment I need all the help I can get!

I did just what you suggested last night. I went to a friends for a while. She was having some problems herself so I was able to listen and try and cheer her up. Sometimes focusing on other's problems and helping other people can really distract you from your own problems. Its nice to have at least A friend to talk to even if they don't totally understand what I'm trying to do with my own sitch. So ended up getting ice cream and watching a movie and relaxing. So I was glad to be distracted.

I have been following the LTR for 2 months now. At first I got some good results but in the last 3 weeks that has dropped way off. Is this normal to happen? I have only had a short text in over 2 weeks. I feel maybe its because my responses have been so short. maybe I am coming across as not friendly. How long do you keep trying one thing before you try something different? I have been dark for 4 weeks with very little interaction or response. Does it ever come to the point when you go ahead and say something friendly like 'how are you?' or is that a big no no?

any advice would be great. I feel like I'm thinking in circles here.