also try to remember just how miniscule the number is that return home and often from what I read on these boards they go again. Sorry but maybe it is just luck b/c you seem to be v good at dbing, but however good you are you cannot do it alone. He has to want it. They had the girl who plays Hannah on UK tv last week, gosh I couldn't bare to listen to her after 5 minutes, talk about me, me and me! Enjoy the film with your kids.
