Plus, if she's that angry, how could she be so happy?
Exactly! How can someone with that much venom in them really be happy?
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Her anger is getting worse, and I hope it's because she's processing and purging all of the emotions and feelings that she kept bottled up for so long. I know that anger protects one from vulnerability. She doesn't seem vulnerable to me at all though!
What other reason could there be for her anger getting worse? She's away from you now, so it's not like you're doing new things to make her angry. Her anger shows how vulnerable she's really feeling inside. Secure, happy, confident people don't lash out like that. Her anger is doing it's job, it's hiding her vulnerability from you, and probably from herself somewhat too.
Yeah...maybe...but it's just me that pisses her off so much...she's not like that unless I'm involved, either physically or mentally! When I'm not around, and she doesn't have to think about me...she's OK.
When you put it 'that' way, there really is no other reason, I guess, for her anger getting worse! It makes her angry to have to see me, or texting between us, or phone conversations between us...those things enrage her. Anything that has to do with me, that involves her too, makes her so mad! I hope she's dealing with the TONS of emotions that hurt her so bad. I know she feels something inside...it's hate, anger, and resentment. She does lash out...fiercely! I hope her anger is doing it's job. She seems pretty resolute thouh...seems to have her mind made up!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
