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Plus, if she's that angry, how could she be so happy?


Exactly! How can someone with that much venom in them really be happy?

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Her anger is getting worse, and I hope it's because she's processing and purging all of the emotions and feelings that she kept bottled up for so long. I know that anger protects one from vulnerability. She doesn't seem vulnerable to me at all though!


What other reason could there be for her anger getting worse? She's away from you now, so it's not like you're doing new things to make her angry. Her anger shows how vulnerable she's really feeling inside. Secure, happy, confident people don't lash out like that. Her anger is doing it's job, it's hiding her vulnerability from you, and probably from herself somewhat too.