If you think that spying was necessary to bring it out in the open, that's fine by me, as long it's not reactive, and done without intention to harm.
Funnily enough CL it was after reading your sitch where you came across emails for your W but didn't read them, that I thought if I ignored what I could see in my sitch that I would indeed be burying my head in the sand rather than taking a "wait and see" approach.
Now it's out in the open we all have to deal with it, rather than just myself getting wound up and building up my blood pressure.
If this is the prick to burst the ballon then so be it, if it is a wake up call for W all the better. But at the end of the day there is only so much work I can do on myself, eventually the other side needs a swift kick to move things one way or the other.
