I don't plan on letting him know anything. Not hard really as he doesn't communicate with me in any way, shape, or form.

I have an appointment with an attorney next week.

I am just so sad that he is doing this to himself, to us.

He thinks there is not a damn thing wrong with him - guess he hasn't taken a good long look in the mirror lately.

Jerri
Me 50
WAH 47
M 23 years
D 22
S 21
S 30 (previous marriage)
B 02/09 marriage is over
S 02/09 NC