No I agree with you.. thats why I said.. in MY sitch. And yes.. he came back before he was ready.
But I agree with John, you have high expectations, because he came back (but then you acknowledge and know that is immaterial, as he was probably not ready to as you say). So, I said before, so what if be is back and giving you nothing, does that stop you being loving toward him? Does it make you different to any of us who have to lower our expectations until this phase of our lives (their lives?) is done?
My ex isnt EVEN back, I dont even get to lie in bed with him with his back to me, no, he has never called me my love, baby, nor does he tell me about his R with Helen and how often he contacts her, which is ongoing.. but so what? Have I gotton angry at him? Am I resentful? Do I not continue to be patient and forgiving and hopeful that we will come through this? Remain optimistic and loving toward him? Give him time?
I feel that we cant know what your H's agenda is, only help you with yours! If we are helping, that is !!
Seriously, do you love this man?? We are all trying to help you, but is he what you really want??
