Ali,
you seem to forget yor sitch is not at where I am. I've told you before, imagine he is "back" and he treats you the way H treats me. Imagine he stays in contact with Helen, contact you know nothing of, imagine he avoids you and hardly ever talks to you, imagine being in your home with a person that always is sleepy, tired etc. Imagine NOT hearing one nice word from him, not a word like "my love, sweetie, my Maria, baby" or whatever you guys use, imagine sleeping in the same bed for at least 10-15 times and he turns your back on you every single time... What would you do?

I am listening. And while I struggle to come to a decision/conclusion your thoughts do help. And I DO believe that Piecing is much harder than standing, and to be able to stand, something muct be there, something I dont feel from him. He just wasnt ready.
K


Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009